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Those who donât know how to get people to say yes soon fall away; those who do, stay and flourish
Where does this idea come from?
* Social dynamics in groups
What's similar to this idea?
* Negotiation
* Charisma
* Leadership skills
* Building rapport
What's opposite of this idea?
* Lone wolf
* Self-sufficiency
Where does this idea lead to?
* Success in leadership
* Building alliances
* Thriving in competitive environments
* Effective team building
Status: #idea
Tags: persuasion, influence, leadership, social skills
References
Influence by Robert B. Cialdini > Introduction
You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems
Where does this idea come from?
* Goal-oriented thinking
What's similar to this idea?
* Systems thinking
What's opposite of this idea?
* Goal-setting sets direction BEFORE systems
Where does this idea lead to?
* Remove bad 'habits' in organizations
Status: #idea
Tags: reading, goals, systems
References
Atomic Habits by James Clear
Relationships compounds
Small acts of kindness and positive behavior in interactions accumulate over time, creating a broad and strong network of connections.
Examples:
* Helping others inspires reciprocal help, fostering stronger relationships.
* Consistently being a bit nicer in interactions can lead to meaningful, long-term connections.
* Networks grow and strengthen as positive behaviors are reflected back over time.
Where does this idea come from?
* The Aggregation of Marginal Gains
* Social reciprocity
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